How many material possessions do we need to be happy?   How much space do we need to live comfortably?   As a society can we escape from the western vision of what the perfect life should be, thus improving the environment? These are some of the questions I have been thinking about lately whilst I have had to downsize my life.

In general over the years I have been going through a slow and steady downsize, from getting rid of unnecessary clothes to getting rid of my TV (as I wanted to stop wasting my life watching other people’s lives).

Now I have had to downsize from a spacious three bed roomed house (which I was living in my own in the end – not good for the environment) to a cosy, compact one bedroom flat which I am sharing with my fiancé.

The downsizing process 

During the downsizing process I had to review all my personal belongings, as they would not be able to fit into my new place. Whilst over the last couple of years I have not exactly been a shopaholic, especially as I pledged at the start of 2008 to not buy any new clothes, somehow I had accumulated many items. Many of which had been kindly given to me as gifts from family and friends (honestly – when I say please don’t buy me anything for birthday / Christmas etc – I really mean it).

How many books?

My large collection of books was the first thing that I reviewed and whilst I sold some at a car boot sale, many of my fiction books went to charity shops to raise money for good causes. Now I only have specific reference books that I refer to on a regular basis, otherwise I am only going to use the library – thus saving space, money and in theory reducing the amount of books that need printing.

Overall I reviewed everything that I owned and I took into consideration of what items I could not live without, such as the essential; clothes, cooking equipment, useful furniture etc. All unnecessary items were either sold via Ebay, car boot sales (my mum’s car as I don’t own one), Realcycle and charity shops. 

So how many material possessions do we need to be happy?

The downsizing process was very cleansing and I felt that my life was less cluttered. Overall I felt  happier getting rid of materialistic items that clever marketing and western values had convinced me (or convinced others to purchase for me) that I should own.

Now don’t get me wrong, my fiancé and I are not living pre-historic style! However we have cut down on electrical items. We no longer have a microwave or freezer. Still no TV and we only have one CD player as we do not need music in every room (in fact the walls are very thin in the flat so you can hear the music quite easily in the next room).

We have basic cooking items, as who actually uses a million cooking gadgets? (ok I admit many years ago I went through a phase of having cooking gadgets such as a breadmaker, steamer etc but sold them awhile ago as they were only collecting dust)

So overall we are currently living fairly clutter free and happy. Note to my family out there “Please, please its very kind of you to buy me presents but don’t or else there will be so space for me to sleep!” 

Big house, little house………….

I have never done compact living before especially in a flat. Now I am not saying I lived in mansions, but living in the East Midlands where property prices were never that ridiculous I managed to grow up in a good sized family home.

When I left the family home I moved about quite a bit and rented a variety of reasonably priced and decent sized houses in Yorkshire, Derbyshire and Nottinghamshire. So recently when the time came to move down south, I was initially shocked at the rental fees and the only realistic option was a small flat.

My fiancé found a flat for us to rent and I am ashamed to admit that I was very pessimistic when I saw photos’. As whilst being a ‘Green Girl’ and aware of the environmental benefits of not taking too much space – I am also a country girl at heart and always wanted a farmhouse with lots of land. So when I saw photos of the compact flat, I was initially thinking “How can I live there comfortably?

However now that I have been in the flat a few weeks I have grown use to it and also very fond of it. In fact I don’t think I want to live in a house again, as I never have the problem of walking upstairs and thinking “What did I come up here for”. Also the flat, is quicker to clean

How much space do we need to live comfortably?

If everyone in the world lived the typical western lifestyle and for example opted for a three bed roomed semi detached house etc we would require 3 planets to support us. 

In fact I think if everyone in the world lived in properties, which are too big for their actual realistic needs, there would be no natural spaces left. Just house, after house, after house. We would have to extract a lot of the Earths resources to build those houses and the planet would be in a worse state than it already is.

Recently in the UK there was a huge sudden increase in building houses (though the current economic climate in the UK has caused many new developments to not be completed). 

From my understanding the government advised that there was a shortage of housing in the UK, thus encouraged building companies to develop new housing estates including creating eco-towns (which I will talk about in a future post). Whilst some people say immigration created the housing need, I believe that a change in modern lifestyle and the western vision created the need.

As a society can we escape from the western vision of what the perfect life should be, thus improving the environment?

Society has tried to dictate that in order to be happy and to fit into society, you need a posh house (keep up with the Jones), a car, a great big television (ok so I won’t go into the list like they did in the film Trainspotting)

Also the structure of families has changed, so the housing need has increased. Once upon a time you would live with your parents until you were married. Whilst you lived with your parents the average child would have to share a room or even a bed with a sibling (my mum had to share with her sister). When you got married, most likely you would stay with your parents or in-laws until you saved up money to get a deposit to rent a house (like my grandma did). Or as a married couple you took lodgings and rented just a room from someone.

However now many people leave home young (I did), may rent with friends (I did), get fed up of living with friends (I did) and get their own place, which is probably too big and is really meant for a family (ok embarrassed to admit I did).

Also, families split up and one parent might live with the children, another might live on their own.

Children leave the nest and parents for nostalgic reasons keep the family house, which is big and empty without the children.

Grandparents too for nostalgic reasons keep large houses, their partner may die and then they are living alone in a large house with spare bedrooms, which could be used to house other people.

You get my drift. For many reasons we are all taking up too much space and thus new houses need to be built to accommodate our modern ways.

Changing bad habits

I think that as a society it is time we changed our bad habits, before we completely destroy the planet. Up and coming nations want to live the western lifestyle – which after years of living in poverty who blames them. However the whole world cannot live like we do, so we must now downsize to offset the up and coming lifestyle of other nations.

Believe me downsizing your life will not make you unhappy, so please consider it – and don’t worry about what the Jones think, they will be bankrupt soon as they wont be able to sustain their competitive lifestyle!